How to Avoid Potential Problem with Home
Schooling
A potential problem with home schooling is maintaining
discipline. When the child stays at home all day, and mommy is
the teacher, there are certain issues of discipline at stake.
It is easy for he child to mis-construe the freedom he
has at home and feel that home schooling is just a long summer
holiday. This is a potential landmine and children need
to be disciplined right at the start.
Home schooling gives you and your child a truly immense
amount of flexibility. You and your child decide where to
learn, how much to learn and when to learn. But,these should be
decisions made at the beginning stages. If your child is too
little to take an active part in the decision, chart out a few
hours of the day for the various activities, and stick to it.
When there is no outside agency to supervise and no exams to
answer, it is easy to get sidetracked. If your child is old
enough, consult him and find out when he wants to learn. Apply
your parental discretion and come up with a timetable.
Homework is also a part of home schooling. What this means
is that once lessons have been taught, the child should be
asked to do some part of the course work by himself without
your guidance. You will need to make sure that your child sits
willingly and finishes his work.
Courtesy, manners and punctuality are some of the various
facets of discipline that a child has to imbibe in the
early years of his life. The school where he interacts
with his peers, his seniors and juniors and his teachers mould
these values quite automatically. At home school, the
child should be taught the importance of speaking and
behaving in a proper manner and appropriate corrections need to
be meted out if behavior is unsatisfactory.
It is advisable to keep aside a particular room or a part of
the room for your home school. The child should be expected to
reach his desk at the appointed time, in proper attire with all
the necessary material. It is easy to allow the school to
become an extension of play if these ground rules are not laid
out and followed. As the teacher, supervisor, principal
and janitor rolled into one, you should also approach the
study area with a cool
professionalism.
Home schooling is doomed to fail without patience. In spite
of all the precautions and steps one takes, it is easy for
a child to get familiar' at home school. At such times, it may
be difficult to discipline the child and get him to listen to
you attentively. When this happens, switch to something
new. Allow the child to take a breather and enjoy a break
yourself.
It's not easy and it takes effort to make your home shooling
program a success. It requires a lot of hard work and patience.
The very informality of the whole procedure
sometimes works against it by making it too easy. If you
take steps to establish rules at the very beginning and adhere
to these rules, your home schooling experience will be a huge
success and you won't have a problem with home
schooling.
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