Social Skills and Home Schooling

Developing the proper social skills is an area of deep concern when it comes to home schooling. Many critics point out that since man needs to hone his social skills, a home schooling environment where social interaction is limited is detrimental to a childs growth and development. But studies have proved this wrong.

Social skills are defined as skills used to interact and communicate with others, to assist status in the social structure and other motivations. Social rules and social relations are created, communicated, and changed in verbal and nonverbal ways creating social complexity useful in identifying outsiders and intelligent breeding partners. The process of learning these skills is called socialization.

Children put into the fiercely competitive school environments lack the confidence to hold a conversation. Such children show little genuine interest in the topic of conversation and don't know how to interact with people of various age groups, especially their elders.

Children who learn at home are more aware of the implications and the purpose of their learning. They will ask intelligent questions and make accurate observations. Children begin their life by imitating their parents. Home schooled children therefore pick up the sterling qualities they see in their parents. On the other hand, they are protected from the detrimental influences of their peers.

These children are thus better equipped with the tools necessary to face the world. The positive reinforcement that takes place in the home schooling environment as opposed to being abandoned, embarrassed or ignored in a normal school environment strengthens their self-esteem. Children turn out to be better balanced and well-rounded as they progress into adulthood.

Tell me and I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember.
Involve me, and I'll understand.
~ Native American Saying